The Idea: Easter traditions bring out our creativity, our quirks, and—let’s be real—our very different approaches to fun! Tonight, you and your spouse will celebrate those differences by dyeing Easter eggs your own unique way and discovering how your personalities show up in the process. Get ready to laugh, learn, and appreciate each other’s one-of-a-kind style!

How It Works:

1. Gather Your Egg-Decorating Supplies
   Grab a mix of classic dye kits, stickers, markers, paint, or even shaving cream (yes, that’s a thing!). The more options the better. It’ll highlight your differences!
   
   
2. The Great Easter Egg Personality Test
   As you start decorating, notice the way you each approach the process. Ask these fun questions along the way:
   
   • Are you a planner (sketching designs first) or a free spirit (just winging it)?
   • Do you go bold and colorful, or keep it simple and classic?
   • Do you take your time for perfection, or speed through for maximum fun?
   • Are you more about tradition (classic pastels) or innovation (galaxy eggs, anyone)?
     
     
3. Swap and Level Up
   Halfway through, trade an egg and decorate on top of each other’s design! This is a fun way to blend your styles and appreciate each other’s creativity. Compliment what you love about their approach—whether it’s their attention to detail, their wild imagination, or their ability to just have fun.
   
   
4. Step 4: Take the Easter Traditions Challenge
   After your eggs are decorated, talk through the conversation starters.
   
   
5. Wrap Up with a Sweet Treat
   End the night with a fun Easter-themed dessert—maybe homemade bunny-shaped cookies, a chocolate egg taste test, or classic Peeps roasting over a candle. As you snack, share one thing you appreciate about your spouse’s approach to fun and creativity.

Think you already know everything about your spouse? Think again! Tonight, you’re diving into a fun personality assessment together to uncover new insights about each other—how you think, what makes you tick, and why you do things the way you do. Get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even have a few “Aha!” moments!

How It Works:

1. Choose Your Personality Test
   Before the date, choose a personality assessment to take together. Here are a few great options:
   
   • Enneagram – Deep dive into core motivations and fears
   • Love Languages Quiz – How you give and receive love
   • PrinciplesYOU – Understand yourself. Understand others.
   • 16 Personalities (MBTI) – How you interact with the world
   • StrengthsFinder – Top strengths and talents
   • Temperament Assessment – Your innate wiring and needs
     
     Print or screenshot your results so you can discuss them during the date.
     
     
2. Set the Scene
   Make it fun! Cozy up at a coffee shop, grab takeout at home, or turn it into a picnic at the park. Bring a notebook (or your phone) to jot down anything interesting.
   
   
3. Share and Compare
   Take turns sharing your results. Talk about things that surprised you, made you laugh, or helped explain past disagreements. Use these conversation starters to keep things going. 
   
   
4. Celebrate Your Differences
   Instead of just understanding each other better, use this date to appreciate those differences! Say things like, “I love that you’re a deep thinker—it helps balance out my go-with-the-flow nature.” Or “Now I get why you need downtime after a busy day—I’ll be more mindful of that.”
   
   
5. Pick One Takeaway
   Before the date ends, choose one thing you can do differently based on what you learned. Maybe it’s giving your spouse more words of affirmation, respecting their need for structure, or embracing their spontaneity.

This date night is all about stepping into your spouse’s world and being their biggest fan! Whether they’re a master chef, an outdoor adventurer, a puzzle-solving pro, or a music lover, tonight is your chance to celebrate their strengths and let them take the lead. Get ready to hype them up, cheer them on, and remind them just how awesome they are!

How It Works:

1. Identify Their Strengths
   What’s something your spouse is great at or really enjoys? Maybe they’re an amazing cook, a natural problem-solver, an outdoor adventurer, or a music lover. Choose an activity that lets them lean into that strength.
   
   
2. Plan a Date Where They Shine
   Choose an experience that highlights their skill or passion. Here are a few ideas:
   • If they love to cook: Take a cooking class together or let them lead a homemade meal challenge.
   • If they’re great at puzzles: Try an escape room and let them take charge of solving clues.
   • If they’re into fitness: Sign up for a fun workout class together (rock climbing, boxing, yoga).
   • If they’re outdoorsy: Go on a hike or take a scenic bike ride and let them plan the route.
   • If they love music: Go to a live show of a band they love or hit up a record store and let them pick out a vinyl.
     
     
3. Be Their Biggest Fan
   Throughout the date, be intentional about pointing out what you admire about them. Say things like, "I love watching you in your element," or "You’re so good at this!" Let them know you see and appreciate their strengths.
   
   
4. Wrap It Up with Gratitude
   On the way home (or over dessert), tell them how their strength brings something valuable to your relationship. For example, "I love how detail-oriented you are—it makes our life so much smoother." Finish the night by talking through the conversation starters. 

Help you remember your love story and write the next chapter...

Remember the Beginning:

1. What was one of the first things you noticed about me that made me different from you, and how did that make you feel?
2. What’s a way we approached a situation differently early on in our relationship that made you realize we see the world uniquely?

Reflect on the Journey:

1. What is a way that my personality or perspective has stretched you in a good way over the years?
2. How do you think our differences have made us stronger as a couple?

Write the Next Chapter:

1. How can we lean into our differences more to become an even better team in the future?
2. How do you think our differences will play a role in how we handle the next big chapter of our lives?

Bonus Tip: Write your answers in a journal to document these reflections and dreams. It’s a beautiful way to track your progress and see where you’re headed!